How do you handle conflict?
Interestingly, the different reactions of the people in addressing situations of conflict. Some people are tenacious, as Jack Russell, yapping and barking loudly, and refused to back down, will go on the offensive seems innate in their nature. Other answer is more like a King Charles spaniel, curled in a corner and looked around with eyes wide open, hoping that peace will return before too long, they have the innate pacifist, and wait for an opportunity to lick his hands and look forward to gently pat the back.
There are many variants of temperament on this scale. It is an undeniable fact that some of them are better equipped to deal with conflict than others. But the dog barks, which is the loudest does not always win. Sometimes it will work, of course, it will scare a few more timid creatures Off and send them running back to their corner. Sometimes they are yapping and biting at the heels can get them into trouble. What do they think of as a defensive action is likely to face each as offensive.
The best response in such cases often stand for your land and treatment, and others as you would like to be treated. By this I mean that in order to respond to a polite and respectful way, no matter how rude and impolite, that other person, as a rule, a victory at the end of the day. What goes around comes around, but you do not need to raise your voice or YAP louder. This is one situation where the adage “If you can not beat them then join them” simply does not work.
Unfortunately, this often happens. It is all too easily drawn into a situation and react in time as your emotional and primitive species is under control. When you are upset by something your emotional brain to take over. Your brain reacts to the perceived threat and the fight or flight response immediately kicks in. Adrenaline pumps around your system, poising to hit you, fight back or run like hell. Sometimes your answer gets frozen in the period between elections, and you can become petrified and unable to take any action at all.
The human brain was Hard Wired with the cave man days to respond in this way. Your brain focuses its attention on this primary instinct of survival and the more logical, higher cortical regions of your brain missing. You can not think clearly at this point, it is impossible. That is why it is so easily drawn in response to the aggression of aggression, but to do it just leads to escalation of the situation.
Back in cave man days, this was an important element of survival. In the modern era, however, it is almost always inappropriate. Man must learn to calm their emotions and allow them to logical thinking mind to participate in their internal debate about how best to respond to the circumstances. Easy to breathe deeply, you will experience a natural response during the rest of your body, and it will also be reflected in your mind.